Relationship & Dating Coach for Women 50+

Become the Woman You Deserve to Be

Experience the power of a listening Ear

Discover more about yourself, your own relationship patterns, and gain the clarity you seek to achieve your goals..

Why Do I Focus on Women Over 50?

Because I'm a woman well over 50 myself, experiencing the many ups and downs that comes with this stage of life, so I understand the challenges women face at this time, more than any other decade. For a lot of women, the 50‑plus decade brings a unique set of difficulties. Children often leave home for university, leaving a void in your life, long‑term marriages may need to reevaluate, or they may dissolve. The loss of a partner after long term-care or a sudden parting can be earth shattering. And if single, still seeking a loving relationship, even with financial stability, the feeling “ of not yet complete” in love, can be profoundly unsettling. These feelings or experiences are not merely obstacles; although they may feel like it, they also opportunities for growth, self‑discovery, renewed purpose and new perspectives.A Proven Path ForwardBefore founding Rhodes Harvey Introductions in 2002, I researched and interviewed 100 men and women who were willing to share their experiences on dating. During my early years I studied the psychology of relationships and attraction and guided countless women through the intricacies of connection and commitment.

In 2013 I earned a Diploma in Coaching (Dip.Couns) and an EQ‑i certification deepening my ability to blend emotional intelligence with evidence‑based techniques. In 2025, my focus shifted entirely to coaching. Finding love at any age can be tricky, but over 50 it can be daunting. I'm here to make your journey a little less daunting and a lot more successful.

Life often presents us with unexpected challenges, sometimes hitting us suddenly or gradually like a slow-motion crash. If this resonates, you're not alone; it's a common human experience during tough times. So you might be wondering if coaching might help, that's perfectly normal too. I'm here to listen without any pressure. Remember, if you continue to respond in the same way to life's and emotional challenges, you'll likely see the same outcomes. If you simply want to have an informal chat, that's completely fine too; there are no obligations beyond that.

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What Sets My Coaching Apart?

A Custom Tailored Approach - Not a one size fits all, nor multiple box-ticking forms or template driven. We start by exploring your upbringing: sibling dynamics, parental relationships, and early friendships. Understanding these foundations reveals why certain patterns repeat in adulthood and ultimately where you come from illuminates where you may go. Attachment & Emotional Intimacy-your style of attachment (secure, anxious, avoidant, or disorganized) influences how you give and receive love. Learning to recognize your own patterns, how you select and who you attract “players” and toxic dynamics" before they take hold.Self‑Relationship First – The most vital relationship you will ever have is with yourself. Yes, it sounds a bit of cliche, nevertheless true, as until you are comfortable in your own space, not attempting filling every void, you may well compromise your own worth. By strengthening your self‑awareness and self‑worth, knowing who you are before embarking on commitment, and laying solid foundations for any future connection, you need to be content independently.Tailored Strategies – Whether you are newly single after a divorce, navigating widowhood, or you've never married and seek guidance on avoiding the pitfalls of repeated dating patterns, or selecting the wrong partners, I will help guide you through your journey. The outcome; emotional clarity to move forward with positivity and new confidence..